Inside and outside

A statement that we are the blends of two polarities is fair when talking about image we have about ourselves inside and the image other people see. Though most people state that they never analyze their selves it is not true and each of us has certain image about ourselves inside of our minds. We all recognize ourselves as persons if certain nature. It is easy to find out. It will be enough to say person that he or she is a mean person and you will hear the objection.
That objection is an indication that a person has certain opinion about his or her self and according to that opinion he or she is not mean. Though, there is a point of view of other people and that point of view has to be recognized as the truer one. So, there are two images of a person that exist. Those images are the image of a person and the image of people who surround a person. And the inner image of a person is never the same with the image people have.
In most cases the difference between those images is the main reason for conflicts people have. It is the conflicts of images people have. The inner image is usually better than the one the other people have about a person. Though, it is also possible that the image the other people have about a person is better than the image a person have about his or her own self.
There is no way for blending of those two images. People will never agree with those, who believe them to be worth than they believe them to be. And there is no way for people to believe that a person they recognize as the mean one is the most kind and generous person in the world. So, there is no point to debate about a personality. Let people believe in what they want to believe and let yourself know thing you have been known before.